Want to Make Sagittarius All Yours? Here are My Top Tips & Tricks

Ana Klikovac
ILLUMINATION
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6 min readNov 22, 2023

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Sagittarius season is on the rise, which means all of should rejoice because it is bound to give us lots of good fortune, particularly to those who are born under the sign of Sagittarius, or have Sagittarius as their lover, or wish to have one for their own.

That is where I come in to share my very best tips, tricks and knowledge about this fiery, energetic sign that I’ve grown to love so much.

Follow along to learn all you need to know about Sagittarius!

Characteristics

Sagittarius is the third and final fire sign, but also the third mutable sign of the Zodiac. Sagittarius is represented by a centaur, representing two beings becoming one. This sign is ruled by the lucky planet that is Jupiter, making Sagittarius the luckiest star sign.

Sagittarius natives are typically incredibly charismatic, witty, successful, optimistic, adventurous people who are generally full of life and wisdom. They are the human embodiment of the phrase “Carpe diem”. To them there is no time like the present. They want everything here and now, which makes them very impatient go-getters.

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Sagittarius people have a real sense of adventure. Many of them have a deep-rooted desire to travel and explore the world. They love learning about different cultures, people, historical and geographical facts about the countries they visit. People born under this sign are naturally curious and intelligent people. They are sometimes referred as “teachers” of the Zodiac, whereas Geminis, who are their polarities, are referred as “students”.

In terms of their physical appearance, Sagittarians are known for having beautiful, shapely and strong legs, but they also have very well defined hips, thighs, lower back and pelvis, as they are the sign ruled by the lower half of the body. Because Sagittarians are always busy running around they generally have toned bodies that they sometimes additionally strenghten by doing sports or having intense workout regimes.

Interests

It is a well known fact that Sagittarians are social butterflies who enjoy lots of external stimuli, whether it means hanging out with friends, traveling, exploring the wildernes, or partying. They love being included in social happenings wherever they are.

Sagittarians also love learning. This sign is known for having an innate thirst for knowledge and the gift for spreading that knowledge onto others. They have such ease when explaining whatever they are interested in. It truly captivates the attention of their listeners.

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Being the bubbly, fun-loving, adventurous people that they are, Sagittarians will likely be willing to try just about anything. They live for new experiences and sensations. Anything that makes them feel alive will likely be something that a Sagittarius will gravitate towards, so you can expect them to want to visit new places in their city, go to museums and galleries, try new food, meet new people, etc.

Relationships

Even though they are hard to pin down, once they decide to make a commitment, they stick with it. They are loyal and loving partners when they find somebody who truly matches their energy. It may take them a while to do so because they want to explore all options in order to make the best possible decision because they know they deserve the best, and that’s completely understandable.

In relationships, Sagittarians are fun, reliable and surprisingly gentle and patient. They may or may not try test your patience from time to time, but generally speaking, there’s no issue that can’t be resolved when you have Sagittarius as your lover.

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The only area that may be slightly problematic is expressing negative emotions because they want everything to be light, harmonious and happy. They don’t like diving deep into the dark emotional conundra. But because they are incredibly direct people they will still try to make an effort to communicate their feelings and try to solve potential issues.

Their directness is by far their best trait in romantic relationships for the reason that they have the habit of adressing issues head on. This makes them solid and stable partners who always have their partner’s best interest at heart.

Sex

Because they are so fun-loving and spontaneous, having sex with a Sagittarius is such a treat. They are free and open to explore wild and kinky ideas. Nothing is out of the question in their book, or so it seems.

I wouldn’t necessarily say they are the most romantic people in the world, but they are definitely passionate, which is to be expected. They are a fire sign after all, so they know how to bring heat into the bedroom. Even though sex isn’t the first word one would use to describe a Sagittarius, which would be the case with Scorpio, for example, I think it should be because I find them to be very sexual and in touch with their bodies.

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I actually have real-life experience in this area, so I’d like to share my two cents. My experience in terms of having a sex with a Sagittarius was nothing short of amazing in every sense of the word. My Sagittarius was passionate, sensual, loving, caring…Our sexy time was supremely intimate and emotionally charged. He knew how to satisfy me both physically, but also emotionally. All areas were covered.

Tips on dating a Sagittarius

If you have your eyes set on a Sagittarius listen up! The first thing you have to do is be their friend first and their lover second because Sagittarians find it difficult to trust and open up to people they don’t know very well. They also may have a tough time with emotions in general.

Don’t get me wrong, they are incredibly warm and loving people and they have tons of friends and people that they love, but it can be difficult for them to give themselves fully to one person. Sometimes they are like little bumblebees jumping from person to person because they are afraid of committment, which is understandable. Most of them eventually come to their senses, find their true love and make a long-term commitment.

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With that being said, Sagittarians are such fun-loving, amazingly intelligent, philosophical, witty, adventurous…you name it, people and partners. You won’t have much trouble connecting with them on whatever topic you choose because their interests and their knowledge are so wide. They are big balls of energy and excitement, and will expect you to mirror those qualities.

Therefore, if you want to date a Sagittarius, you better be prepared for an adventure of a lifetime. Be spontaneous, encourage them to pursue their dreams and passions, be their friend, their partner in crime and never ever dim-out their light. Let them be themselves and show up authentically as you are because that’s what Sagittarians stand for.

Always be loving, patient and relaxed with them. Never push them to do things they don’t want to do, especially when it comes to emotions. They will come to you and open up when they feel ready. Simply give them their space and all will be good and well.

Have you ever dated a Sagittarius? What has your experience been like?

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Ana Klikovac
ILLUMINATION

Curious soul, exploring the world through written creation | Instagram: @kannchywrites & @kannchy96 | Email: ana.klikovac8@gmail.com