Can’t Get Sexy Scorpio out of Your Mind? Better Learn How to Make them Yours
I am my mother’s child, I’ll love you ’til my breathing stops
Happy Scorpio season lovelies! I hope you have the best season ever and that you are always happy, healthy and smiling, and that all of your wishes come true.
Okay, now that we’ve got pleasantries out of the way let’s get into the real nitty gritty. Whether you’re a dating a Scorpio, crushing on a Scorpio or you are a Scorpio you better stick around because I have some top notch tips that are going to help you better understand this complex and intense sign.
So, without further ado, let’s get this show on the road!
Characteristics
Scorpio is the second Water sign of the Zodiac. It is a fixed sign with scorpion as its symbol. Scorpio is ruled by the planet of Mars which is the planet of war, aggression, passion and sexuality. This makes Scorpio natives extremely passionate and sex driven people.
Because of their intensity, Scorpios tend to be quite polarizing people. You either love them and can’t get enough of them or you rue the day they were born. There’s seems to be no in between, and honestly this is also how they feel about other people, as well, so it’s fine.
When speaking of physical attributes, Scorpions are often extremely attractive, sexy, striking people. They have this captivating kind of beauty that never goes unnoticed. Their eyes are their most dominant features. Scorpio eyes are large, clear, mysterious and undeniably gorgeous. Take one look at a Scorpio and you’ll fall in love at first sight.
Also, because they are ruled by Mars, the planet of sex (along with everything else), Scorpios are also known for having very beautiful genitalia and other secondary sex characteristics.
Interests
Being one of the most intense signs out there, Scorpios will likely be drawn to interests that help them explore that intensity that’s bubbling inside of them. Scorpios’ interests can often be considered odd or taboo or just a little peculiar.
They may enjoy watching murder mysteries, horror movies, medical dramas, etc. Anything that’s gory and dark and twisted will most likely be appealing to a Scorpio. They are not the ones to turn away a spooky or creepy fun.
Scorpios will also enjoy learning about and partaking in various sexual activities. The kinkier the better. Sex is just something they are really passionate about and they aren’t shy to show it. Some of them even make sex their career part, which is why it’s not uncommon to see some Scorpios be involved in the sex industry or for some of them to become sex educators or even doctors.
Human body and sexuality are very intriguing to a Scorpio and there’s no doubt about it. They love to learn how it works, they love the look of it, the feel of it…This makes Scorpios incredibly free and shameless people. They celebrate their sexuality and love their bodies completely.
Giving the fact that they are water signs, Scorpios also have a soft and caring side to them. They have this wonderful sense of compassion for other beings, especially animals. Scorpios love helping those in need, so it’s quite common to see Scorpios being passionate about activism as that is how they can have the greatest impact on their community.
Relationships
This may surprise you, but dating a Scorpio can actually be quite an easy ride…that is if you’re compatible with them and if you know how to get on their good side. They really aren’t as difficult as everyone makes them out to be.
Yes, they have a hot temper sometimes, but only if you really cross them. Scorpios don’t attack or argue without a solid reason. This could be cheating, lying or doing something shady behind their back. They are extremely loyal people with firm principles and will expect the same from their partners.
Scorpios love deeply and fully give themselves to their lovers. Much like Tauruses, who are their opposites, Scorpios are also loyal, deep and dependable people. They don’t like to do anything by halves, especially not relationships. Once their in it, they’re in it for the long run.
Their moral values are also highly defined, but that doesn’t mean they will turn a blind eye to being disrespected in a relationship. You cannot expect a Scorpio to hold their composure in such instances. They will definitely seek revenge and make your life a living hell. However, that only happens in the most extreme cases. It really takes a lot to drive a Scorpio to the point of madness. They are usually pretty calm and collected individuals.
However, they do get moody sometimes. They may not get explosively angry a lot, but you will likely catch them being sad, depressed and generally cranky. In these moments it’s important to give them their space to process their emotions, rather than make them have a rational discussion about them. Scorpios need solitude in order to fully analyze and understand their inner worlds.
Sex
You already know what I am going to say in this section because I hinted at it above, but let me tell you again that Scorpios are kings, queens, masters, pros, experts, you name it, at sex! They are just born with it and there’s nothing anybody can say about it.
They are sexual and sensual and kinky! Some of them can be real freaks, in the best way possible. They just have this deep and innate sense for pleasure and some pain, too. They aren’t afraid of diving deep into the most extremes avenues for pleasure.
Sex is not just a fun activity for them, it’s a lifestyle, a way of expression, lack of abandon, a middle finger to frigid, traditional, conservative rules imposed by society. Scorpios cannot exist without expressing their sexuality openly and honestly, whether alone or with other people.
Tips on dating a Scorpio
If you want to shoot your shot with a Scorpio be prepared for the greatest love of your life, truly. There is nobody alive who will love you like a Scorpio, and you must also give them the same love in return. They will never settle for mediocrity.
Be prepared for their mood swings and occasional fits of rage. Know that they come and go and that you can usually reason with them pretty easily if you are their one and only and you know how to switch their negativity off. Worry not, for these moods don’t last for very long. They are very much like Aries (also ruled by Mars), in the sense that they blow up in an instant, then quickly cool down.
One thing is for sure- dating a Scorpio is a wild ride, so you better fasten your seatbelts tightly. This will either be the love of your life or the spiciest, most intense, fiery love afair. Either way, you are the luckiest person in the world if you get a chance to be with a sexy Scorpio for even a second!
Have you ever dated a Scorpio? What has your experience been like?
